Tuesday, September 25, 2007
One question that I have been asking for some time is how well do you think you know a person? Even if you were to spend years together the truth of the matter is that it is still difficult to understand a person.
I was blog hopping and I came across something interesting in my friend's blog. He was writing about secrets and he said:
"I rather share ALL my secrets with one wise person.
Than expose one little secret to a multitude of fools...
We all need someone to share the deeper details of our lives.
Who we pick is VERY important.
A person who knows your secrets can either build you up or tear you down.
So who you pick to confide in will determine whether your life is built up...or torn down."
"The safest assurance to who to share with?
Of course the one who you were placed accountable to."
And who exactly do I regard as accountable? No one of course. Yet I realise like any human being, I will explode if i do not release all the pent up emotions. Well, it seems that subconsciously, I have taken to realising bits of emotions to people that I meet or talk to. It doesnt matter if they are random or not because basically, a tiny portion of information is harmless. Best of all, these people mostly or almost all the time do not realise that they actually know a tiny portion of my life that I will not reveal to anyone else.
As what was said by Dumbledore in Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, It is not wise to keep all your secrets in one basket, it is better to spread it across afew baskets. (Or it goes something like that)
Yesterday was an interesting day. It is quite sad to realise that I only got close to Nicholas Cheong during this period when he will be leaving. Fortunately, I decided that I should not be affected by his departure as our friendship will still remain.
As to what was discussed yesterday, I have come to the conclusion that I am not a stubborn person rather I am extremely headstrong. As I mention on the way home to some people, I will do whatever it takes for the good of those around me and I do have the strength the push through with things that are necessary no matter how unpopular they are.
Nathaniel Iman sprouted nonsense at